by Sandra Gurev
My
father-in-law, Elias Gurev, was fifty-nine when I met him. He was tall, broad framed with a thick thatch
of iron grey hair. His legs seemed
mismatched with his body as they were thin. They didn' seem like they could
support his broad chest. I never got to
know him well due to a signicant permanent hearing loss from German
measles at age sixteen. Our conversations were monologues and my
attempts to ask questions went unanswered.
His loss of hearing led to some
degree of paranoia thinking people were talking about him.
When our
sons were born in the late 60's, their grandfather would take Greg or Keith on
his knee calling, "Come boychick, come and sit on grandpa's
lap." They enjoyed being bounced on
his knee and gave him their complete attention when he regaled them with
stories from long ago. His stories almost always touched on his heroism. For instance, he told us about riding with
Pancho Villa on his trusty mule, Rosita.
I listened in on his monologue with the boys and envisioned him wearing
a colorful serape, sombrero askew riding hard through mountain canyons calling
to Rosita, "Andele!" The
sunsets were brush stroked in lavender, mango, and magenta.
Other
stories revolved around riding with the Cossacks through the Russian Steppes or
as a sidekick to Genghis Khan. Some of
his leaders were ruthless barbarians but it didn't seem to matter. Adventure abounded in his stories. Our boys
sat with rapt attention , their eyes growing wider with disbelief with each
ensuing tale.
One day my
father-in-law became serious and his story took on a decidedly solemn
tone. He described a memory of a time
when he was about twelve. He lived in an
expansive richly decorated home with his parents and sister in some unknown
country. He spoke lovingly of running his
fingers over the ivory keys of the family's grand piano. Then he said,
"We had to leave and I knew that I would never see it again." Again his hearing loss prevented me from
asking for more details, questions that I yearned to ask.
It wasn't
until 2012 that I began to get answers to my questions. I came across a yellowed creased petition
requesting citizenship to the British protectorate of Palestine. The year was 1930. I learned that my father-in-law was born into
a Jewish family in Theodosia, Crimea. His father had a well paying government
position working for the Czar. His
family had enjoyed a comfortable upper middle class lifestyle. Their
lives changed abruptly when an empathetic Cossack calvaryman paid an
unannounced visit. He had learned that
the Czar's army was planning to launch a pogrom against the Jews of
Theodosia. The man urged them to leave
immediately. They needed to get on the
first ferry to neighboring Turkey. The
family hastily piled documents, photos, perhaps a pair of silver candlesticks
for the sabbath onto sheets and escaped through the cover of night. His father managed to go to a bank before
leaving only withdrawing enough money as he could without arousing suspicion. They fled their home leaving the door wide
open and safely escaped by ferry. Most
of the remaining Jewish residents were
terrorized and killed by the army.
Continued,
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Sandy Gurev is a wife of fifty-one years and mother of
two sons and four grandchildren. Sandy was an elementary school counselor
prior to retiring to Williamsburg, VA nine year's ago from Rochester, NY. Her
volunteer work includes providing lunch to cancer patients and fitting women
with wigs after they have lost their hair. Playing competitive duplicate
bridge and belonging to two book clubs rounds out her time. Within the
past two years she has written a memoir for her grandchildren and a couple of
articles for the American Amateur Press Association. Sandy found that writing
helped to reduce her perception of pain while she was awaiting back surgery.
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